About kayla murphy, lpc, lmhc
Hi! My name is Kayla Murphy, and I am a Psychotherapist, Clinical Supervisor, and Office Manager at the group private practice, Anchor Therapy. We are located in downtown Hoboken, New Jersey, and also provide flexible therapy using video platforms from the comfort of your home. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, and Certified School Psychologist. I can work with clients from both New York and New Jersey. Currently, I am in school for my doctorate in Clinical and School Psychology at Kean University. I have extensive experience working with children of all ages, teens, young adults, adults, and families.
Children today are facing more challenges than ever. The demands of school, friendships, social media, and life changes can take a toll on mental health. You might be seeing changes in your child or teen like irritability, worry, self-esteem, sleep issues, sadness, trauma, behavioral issues, lack of concentration, lack of motivation, and aggression. Parenting can be overwhelming, and you are yearning for your child's success. Children and teens might be feeling misunderstood; trust could be broken, and the family dynamic could be shaken up. Our goal is to improve your child's emotional well-being by increasing their coping skills in all aspects of life while also providing support for you as the parent.
I have received extensive training working with young children and teens, using Play Therapy, CBT, and Mindfulness. I also specialize in helping adults while using CBT, Psychodynamic, Person-Centered and Solution-Focused modalities. My clinical skills were developed through my schooling at Loyola University Maryland and work at Johns Hopkins Bayview Medical Center.
While I treat children and teens, I also specialize in helping young adults and adults with anxiety, depression, life changes, relationship issues, trauma, grief, OCD, school issues, work stressors, perinatal and postpartum depression/anxiety and communication. Together we will develop a plan that will work best for you to achieve your therapeutic goals. I am here to offer the support that is needed, and by using a variety of modalities, I will tailor each session to meet any individual's needs.
Here are some fun facts about me - I am originally from Queens, New York, and lived in Baltimore for a few years. I currently live in Jersey City, and I enjoy exploring all the restaurants Jersey City and Hoboken have to offer! In my free time, I love baking, painting, reading, spending time with friends/family, and traveling. Dancing, face/hair masks, and reading are my favorite versions of self-care, which helps me keep a healthy work-life balance.
More about how I could help…
+ ADHD
- I have worked extensively with children diagnosed with ADHD both in the school and clinical settings. I have helped parents understand what an ADHD diagnosis means and how to meet their child’s needs. Most importantly, I provide psycho-education and CBT-related coping skills to children on how to live a life with an ADHD diagnosis. I work collaboratively with the child’s doctor, school, or other providers to help the child achieve their goals.
+ Behavioral Issues
- Through the use of cognitive behavioral therapy, play therapy, and biblio-therapy, caregivers, children, and the clinician figure out the root cause of the child's behavior. Treatment is a collaborative approach. Typical goals for behavioral disorders are to develop better coping skills, set better boundaries, and learn how to effectively and assertively communicate one’s feelings. My area of interest and research is how to decrease behavioral issues while increasing parental-child attachment.
+ CHILDREN
I have extensive training in play therapy and have helped many children and their families with behavioral issues such as anxiety, agitation, low self-esteem, school issues, relationship issues, test taking anxiety, social anxiety, lack of motivation, sadness, anger, trauma, adoption, ADHD, and divorce. I am able to build a strong bond with children so that they feel comfortable in a safe (and fun!) space to express themselves.
What is play therapy? It's truly the only way children can communicate and express themselves. Play is the language that children speak. Most kids’ brains are not developed enough to verbalize exactly what they’re thinking or feeling. The goal of play therapy is to communicate with children on their level. In turn, play therapy should lead your child to be able to express themselves better. All of the children I see look forward to coming to therapy since we have fun together! It is a special time for a child to get an adult’s full attention and express whatever they want in sessions in a safe environment. I teach children coping skills they can use outside of sessions when interacting with peers, family members, or anyone they may interact with.
- I see kids of all ages. For kids under 6 years old, I always recommend parent(s) to be present so that they can learn how to help their child at home.
+ Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
- CBT offers insight on how our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors influence one another. CBT can be for any age. Oftentimes,I will pair anCBT skill with art or play therapy component to make it kid-friendly. I have utilized CBT with clients with anxiety, depression, OCD, grief, adjustment disorders, ADHD, and other behavioral and mood related disorders. In session worksheets may be utilized depending on the concern. Homework may be utilized in session so the client can practice the skill at home.
+ LGBTQIA+ POPULATION
- I can help clients with their coming out process, parenting a child who came out, gender or sexual identity questioning, transgender counseling, experiencing discrimination/bullying, and any other stressors that may arise.
- Your identity may not even be a stressor, but you may be looking for a therapist who you can feel comfortable seeing which is why I think it’s important to express my comfort and knowledge in working with this population. I am an ally, prefer She/Her pronouns, and prefer to be called Kayla.
+ Mindfulness-based therapy
- Mindfulness-based therapy is a therapy that has been beneficial for all ages! Through the use of center-rhythm breathing, guided imagery, journaling, meditation, and more mindfulness-based interventions I have helped clients become more aware of their present moment emotions and cognitions. Mindfulness is an evidence based intervention that has been shown to help decrease levels of stress, depression, anxiety, while also helping with somatic symptoms.
+ PARENTS
In addition to seeing your child for therapy, I also have parenting sessions as needed throughout your child’s treatment. Parenting sessions can be check-in’s on the phone between the child’s session or it could be a full session with parent(s) in-person, on phone, or video. During these parenting sessions, we would create a plan on how you can help your child at home to continue the treatment we are doing in play therapy sessions. While working with chilren, I find it most helpful in treatment to help you (the parent) learn how to assist your child at home with the behavior changes we are working towards. Parenting sessions are also a nice break you can get from being with your child so that you can refocus on coping with your own stressors that come along with parenting.
In session, I offer a compassionate interpersonal and behavioral approach for parenting skills. Through psycho-education and bibliotherapy, parenting sessions review appropriate developmental norms for the child’s age and diagnosis along with the discussion on how the parent can feel most supported. I keep up to date with the most current research and will utilize it as an area of reflection in session. Through the use of CBT strategies, activities may be assigned each week to the caregiver.
I can also assist with co-parenting issues that may come up. It is important that as parents you are on the same page with parenting. If you decide to reward your child in a specific way then it is important that both parents are aware of the goal set for the child. If the child does not achieve their set goal, then both parents have to communicate and agree that the reward was not earned at that time. If you are trying to co-parent while separated or divorced it can be difficult. These parenting sessions can assist you in having a safe space to communicate with one another and get on the same page.
+ Play therapy
- I utilize a child centered play therapy approach when working with children. Play therapy has helped many children and families that have come in with a variety of presenting problems. Children communicate through play! I pull from Theraplay, CBPT, and PCIT modalities and do what best fits the child’s needs. Games utilized in session could be board games, cards, puzzles, along with arts and crafts, puppets, and other toys.
+ PRENATAL & POSTPARTUM MOTHERS
I have enjoyed my work with women on their motherhood journey. I help mothers with fertility issues, prenatal stressors and postpartum depression and anxiety. It is very common for women to experience miscarriages and this isn’t really talked about in our society often. So it can feel lonely and anxiety provoking when you try again to get pregnant. Therapy can be a place to openly talk about your anxiety and worries that come up. It is also okay to continue to feel anxious or stressed while pregnant as you are preparing for a huge life change. And once you give birth to your child, you will find your life shifting daily. You may find the adjustment difficult or that you are emotionally not feeling like yourself. While experiencing any of these stages of motherhood, it is a great time to come in for therapy for support and treatment to help keep you get back on the right track to feeling like your best self again. I have had multiple clients I have seen from the time they started to contemplate trying to get pregnant through their child being born and after. Each stage comes with their own stressors and therapy provides a great amount of support where you can openly express how you’re actually doing. My clients love to utilize my flexibility of telehealth sessions in which we can have video or phone sessions if coming into the office is too difficult.
+ TEENS
- Being a teen can be extremely stressful as you have a lot to worry about. Teens are experiencing an increase in anxiety and depression symptoms which parents have to look out for. It’s common for teens to feel a low self-esteem due to what others say on Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, etc. There may be changes in friendships and relationships which cause stress, anxiety, and sadness. The application process to get into high school in Hudson County can be as stressful as applying to colleges. I personally think every teen could use therapy as it’s such a stressful time in anyone’s life. It is a time they’re trying to figure out their identity, which is stressful enough. I have a great bond with all of the teen clients I see and really enjoy my work with them. I keep up-to-date with social media, pop culture, TV shows, and movies they’re watching so that we can speak the same language. I genuinely enjoy seeing the progress a teen client can make in therapy and find it so rewarding once they “graduate” from therapy with more confidence.
+ TELEHEALTH
Are you looking for the option of online therapy? I offer the option of telehealth sessions (video and phone counseling). If you are residing in New Jersey or New York, you are eligible for telehealth services with me. I stay up to date with the latest technology; I’m frequently available, and easy to reach. The best way to reach me is by email or text as I will be able to respond quicker than playing phone tag in between sessions. Telehealth sessions are great if you have a sick child at home, you’re sick yourself, there’s a snow storm, you’re stuck at work, you’re traveling, or you just prefer to do a session while in your pajamas at home. I treat telehealth sessions as the same as in-person and find them just as beneficial in our work together. The ability to do telehealth sessions also comes with flexibility in scheduling.
+ YOUNG PROFESSIONALS
- Young adults (20’s and 30’s year olds) have a hard time adulting as their life transitions. Either you’re in college and having a hard time balancing school and relationships or you are transitioning into the work world and finding that it is not everything you’d hope it’d be. You may find that you’ve found success in your career, but continue to experience relationship issues, anxiety, or depression. Whenever there’s a life event, such as graduating from college, getting married, having a baby, a breakup, a career change, etc., you will feel some form of stress. I help my clients with ways they can cope with this stress in a healthy way. This is a time in your life where there are constant decisions that need to be made. You may fear that you’re making the wrong decisions and don’t know what your future holds. That’s a common fear for young adults, or young professionals, to experience. I can help you get through it all so you can feel confident moving forward with your decisions.
What the next steps would look like…
The next step, if you feel I could be a good fit to help you or your loved one, would be to reach out to our intake coordinator Victoria by filling out the form at the bottom of this page. Victoria will give you all the information you need to know when setting up an appointment and to make sure you’re a good fit with the therapist you’re requesting. When reaching out, please explain a little bit about yourself (or who you want to bring in for therapy) and what you’re looking for help with. We would then discuss your availability to find a time to schedule your intake session.
You have the option of coming in-person for sessions or doing online therapy (video/phone sessions). I have availability not only during the day, but also on evenings and weekends. While every person and family are different, I conduct an intake assessment in which we will discuss your struggles, your goals for therapy, and your history. If you are bringing in a child or teen who is under 18 years old then I will need a parent or guardian present and get some background information from you as well. This helps me get a full picture of who you are and how I can best help you or your child. You also may find it helpful to attend the intake session without your child so that you can speak openly about your concerns.
Honestly the hardest part of starting therapy is finding a therapist who’s available and a good fit. That’s why I try to explain here how I work with my clients. If this seems like a good fit then feel free to reach out! Our intake coordinator, Victoria, will get back to every client who reaches out through the form on our website. If Victoria finds that we are not a good fit for whatever reason, then she will see if there’s another therapist at Anchor Therapy who can help you or she will direct you to another professional in the area who can best help you.
Please feel free to contact our intake coordinator Victoria and we can start the process of helping you or your loved one feel better soon.
BACKGROUND
Bachelor of Arts degree majoring in Psychology and minoring in Special Education from Loyola University Maryland
Master of Science degree in Clinical Psychology from Loyola University Maryland
Master of Arts in Educational Psychology from Kean University
Currently enrolled: Doctor of Psychology degree in Clinical and School Psychology at Kean University
New Jersey Licensed Professional Counselor, License #37PC00778000
New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor, License #011314
Certified School Psychologist
Kayla has experience working with the following:
Kayla’s areas of specialization include:
Perfectionism
Phobias
Behavioral issues
Bullying
Emotional overwhelm
Grief and loss
Communication problems
Stress management
Trauma and PTSD
Women’s Issues
Postpartum Depression and anxiety
Miscarriage
Prenatal
Pregnancy
Young adult issues
As your therapist, Kayla finds it important to adapt and individualize each client’s plan of care to better fit your needs. Kayla has training in and incorporates the following evidenced-based practice methods:
Bibliotherapy
Interpersonal Psychotherapy
Motivational Interviewing
Parent-Child Interaction (PCIT)
Theraplay
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