7 Stress Management Tools From a Licensed Therapist

Stress is an inevitable part of life, stemming from various sources such as work, relationships, PTSD and mental health issues and other personal challenges. While some stress can be beneficial, pushing us to perform better and adapt to new situations, chronic stress can have detrimental effects on our physical and mental health. Therefore, effective stress management tools are essential for maintaining overall well-being. This blog explores several proven techniques and strategies to manage stress effectively.

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1. Physical Exercise helps decrease stress

Get active! Engaging in regular physical activity is one of the most effective ways to manage stress. Exercise increases the production of endorphins, which are natural mood lifters. It also helps improve sleep quality, which can be negatively affected by stress, and reduce the levels of stress hormones such as cortisol. If you are new to exercise or uncomfortable by getting started, doing it with a buddy can make it much easier and more fun!

  • Aerobic Exercise:

    Activities like walking, running, cycling, and swimming improve cardiovascular health and elevate mood.

  • Strength Training:

    Lifting weights or doing bodyweight exercises can enhance muscle tone and overall fitness.

  • Yoga and Pilates:

    These practices focus on flexibility, strength, and controlled breathing, promoting relaxation and stress relief.

2. Mindfulness and Meditation helps stress

Mindfulness involves being fully present and engaged in the current moment, which can help reduce stress by preventing overthinking and anxiety about the future or past. Meditation practices, such as mindfulness meditation, can cultivate a state of calm and balance. This is also something you can get help with through stress therapy if you don’t want to try on your own!

  • Breathing Exercises:

    Techniques like deep breathing, diaphragmatic breathing, and the 4-7-8 breathing method can quickly reduce stress levels. Box breathing is another great technique that can help. These types of breathing can be practiced with a licensed mental health therapist. You can also look them up on YouTube to follow along. 

  • Progressive Muscle Relaxation:

    Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) is a simple yet powerful tool for managing stress and promoting relaxation. By systematically tensing and relaxing different muscle groups, individuals can reduce overall muscle tension and achieve a state of deep relaxation. Regular practice of PMR can lead to numerous physical and mental health benefits, making it a valuable addition to any stress management routine.

  • Guided Meditation:

    Using apps or online resources, individuals can follow along with guided sessions to focus their minds and relax. Some favorite apps are “HeadSpace” and “Insight Timer”. Youtube also has a lot of great meditations. Start small by trying a 2-5 minute meditation if you are new to this practice. 

3. Healthy Practices that decrease stress

  • Nutrition:

    Nutrition plays an important role in stress management. Certain foods can increase stress, while others can help decrease it. A balanced diet that includes a variety of nutrients supports overall health and helps the body cope with stress more effectively. 

    • Reduce Caffeine and Sugar: High levels of caffeine and sugar can increase stress and anxiety.

  • Adequate Sleep:

    Sleep is essential for the body to recover and repair itself, and poor sleep can significantly increase stress levels. Establishing a consistent sleep schedule and creating a restful environment can improve sleep quality.  

    • Set a Regular Bedtime: go to bed and wake up at the same time every day to regulate your body's internal clock. 

    • Create a Relaxing Bedtime Routine: engage in calming activities such as reading, taking a warm bath, or practicing relaxation exercises before bed.

  • Limit Screen Time:

    Avoid screens at least an hour before bed, as the blue light emitted can interfere with sleep.

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4. Time Management and Organization minimizes stress

Poor time management can lead to stress and feelings of being overwhelmed. Learning to manage time effectively can help reduce stress by ensuring tasks are completed in an organized and timely manner. This can be very helpful in personal and professional settings. Feeling rushed, procrastinating and losing track of time can be very stressful. 

Here are some strategies to get better at managing your time and becoming more organized:

  • Prioritize Tasks: Identify the most important tasks and focus on completing them first. You can also break tasks into smaller steps. By breaking large tasks into manageable steps, it can make them less daunting.

  • Use Planning Tools: Calendars, planners, and digital tools can help keep track of deadlines and commitments. To-do lists can be effective as well. Make sure to add self care on the to-do list and not just responsibilities! Writing things out can help alleviate stress. Doing a “brain dump” at the end of the day by getting things on paper can feel great. Journaling is also recommended to release your thoughts and feelings for the day. 

  • Habit stack: Do habits together to make things easier. This will help with completing tasks and staying motivated. 

5. Social Support helps with stress management

Having a strong support network is important for managing stress. Friends, family, and colleagues can provide emotional support, practical help, and a sense of belonging. Laughing is a great stress reliever and spending time with the people who make you laugh is key! If you don’t have social support, there are ways to build this.  Support can also come from a therapist as well who specializes in this. 

  • Communicate Regularly:

    Staying in touch with loved ones through regular communication, facetimes, phone calls, texts/emails are important. Isolating from loved ones during times of stress can increase feelings of stress. 

  • Join Groups or Clubs:

    Participate in activities and organizations that interest you to meet new people. Facebook has a lot of different group options as well as the app “Meetup”. Check your local community as well for things to join! Some examples are gardening groups, choir/music groups, religious groups, LGBTQIA groups, and many more. 

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6. Hobbies and Leisure Activities that alleviate stress

Engaging in hobbies and activities that bring joy and relaxation can be an excellent way to manage stress. Hobbies provide a break from daily pressures and can help rejuvenate the mind and body, provide distraction, produce enjoyment and fulfillment. 

Some examples of good hobbies are:

  • Creative Arts: Painting, drawing, writing, and playing musical instruments can be therapeutic and help express emotions. Engaging in theater and acting can also help you express emotions in a positive way. 

  • Gardening: Working with plants and spending time outdoors can be calming and satisfying.

  • Sports and Games: Participating in sports or playing games can be both fun and physically engaging.


7. CBT Therapy for stress management

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a type of psychotherapy that helps individuals identify and change negative thought patterns that contribute to stress as well as make behavioral changes. Finding a therapist who specializes in CBT and stress therapy can be effective for treating stress. 

Some things that can be applied in CBT therapy are:

  • Cognitive Restructuring: Identifying and challenging irrational or negative thoughts and replacing them with more balanced ones.

  • Behavioral Activation: Engaging in activities that are aligned with your values and goals, even when you don't feel like it.

  • Problem-Solving: Breaking down stressful problems into manageable parts and developing actionable solutions.

Managing stress is something that requires a combination of strategies tailored to individual needs and preferences. Physical exercise, mindfulness and meditation, healthy eating, adequate sleep, time management, social support, engaging in hobbies, and cognitive-behavioral techniques are all effective tools for reducing stress. By incorporating these tools into daily life you can enhance your tolerance to stress and improve overall quality of life. Remember, the key is consistency and finding what works best for you.


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