The process of finding a therapist who is a good fit for you is difficult. If you want in-person sessions, is the counselor close to you? If you travel a lot, can your therapist offer online mental health counseling sessions? Perhaps you feel more comfortable speaking to a male therapist to discuss men’s health issues. Maybe you want a female therapist who understands the difficulty of infertility.
Once you find a therapist, it may temporarily feel like a weight is lifted off of your shoulders but, then, your first session comes around and you feel like you have nothing to say. You feel like you are ready to work on yourself, but you find yourself clamming up and getting nervous once you are face-to-face with a stranger. All of a sudden, the process may seem very overwhelming to you. If you have felt this way at some point during therapy, you are not alone! This is a common phenomenon known as “therapy block” or “therapy resistance.” For more information on how to fix this issue, keep reading!